Mixed signals
Is he invested or keeping you on hold?
Fourteen questions about what actually happens between you: who texts first, who names a day, what changed in the last three months. Scored in your browser.
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Mixed signals
He is warm one week and gone the next, and never quite commits. How to tell a different pace from a convenient pause, judged by what he does rather than what he says.
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He apologized for ghosting me: what to say back and how to tell if he means it
He disappeared, and now he's sorry. How to tell a real apology from an easy one, with replies for forgiving, testing it first, or closing the door.
Is he losing interest or just busy: how to tell the difference from what he actually does
His replies got slower and shorter. Four ways to read the change, a checklist that separates busy from losing interest, and what to text to find out.
He disappeared and came back months later: what's behind a return like this and how to answer
Four months of nothing, then a message out of the blue. What usually sits behind a return after months, and how to answer without sliding back in.
He ghosted me and came back like nothing happened: what it can mean and how to tell in three weeks
He vanished for weeks, then texted 'hey stranger' as if nothing happened. Four reasons people return after ghosting, and how to tell which one this is.
He says he's not ready for a relationship but likes me: 4 things it can mean and what to ask
He likes you, he's not ready, and he's still around. Four things this can mean, how to tell yours apart, and what to say so you aren't waiting forever.
He only texts me at night: what it can mean and one message that clears it up
Silent all day, then 'you up?' at 11 p.m. What it can mean when he only texts at night, how to tell which it is, and one message that clears it up.
He pulled away after we slept together: 4 scenarios and what to say to find out
Warm before, quiet after. Four reasons someone pulls away after you sleep together, how to tell which one you're facing, and exactly what to text.
How to respond to a guy who ghosted you and came back: exact texts for every situation
He ghosted, and now he's texting again. What to say back based on what he sent and what you want, with wording you can copy and what not to send.
He texts me every day but never makes plans: 4 reasons and how to tell which is yours
Good morning texts, memes, long chats at night, and still no date. Four reasons he keeps texting without making plans, and what to send to find out.
He watches my stories but doesn't text me: what it can mean and whether to reach out
He sees every story and hasn't sent a message in weeks. What story-watching without texting can mean, and whether it's worth reaching out.