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It’s not her you need, it’s for the pain to stop

From your answers, what hurts most isn’t her absence so much as losing what held your days together: evenings, plans, knowing what tomorrow looks like. The thought “I want her back” here is more about making the pain stop than about her.

That’s why the question of odds doesn’t work here: getting back together would fill the gap for a week or two, and then it would all come back. The good news is that this changes faster than it feels from the inside. In a study of college students, the first weeks after a breakup turned out easier than people themselves had predicted (Eastwick et al., 2008).

This is not a diagnosis. The quiz describes interaction patterns in a relationship and does not assess anyone’s mental health.

This is not a diagnosis. Our articles and quizzes describe what happens between people and do not assess anyone’s mental or physical health. They are not a substitute for professional advice.