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It’s serious: she’s weighing a decision but hasn’t made it

The signs are many and they line up: no plans beyond a few weeks, one-sided initiative, touch has faded, arguments have either vanished or turned into her leaving the conversation. Judging by the pace, you’re not at the start of this. You’re at the turning point.

The feeling that “it all started a month ago” almost always means you noticed a month ago, not that it began then. Research that followed couples over time found that the steep decline before a breakup lasts from 7 to 28 months (Bühler and Orth, 2025). You’re probably already inside that stretch.

This is not a diagnosis. The quiz describes interaction patterns in a relationship and does not assess anyone’s mental health.

This is not a diagnosis. Our articles and quizzes describe what happens between people and do not assess anyone’s mental or physical health. They are not a substitute for professional advice.